How long does the process take?
For the most part, that is totally up to you!
I will start working on your draft after you’ve uploaded your photos and written content (don’t worry - I provide instructions and coaching for those parts!). Some families get this all done in a week or less and others take up to a month. It just depends how quickly you want to move.
A draft for a semi-custom profile takes me 5-7 business days.
A draft for a custom profile takes me 10-12 business days.
At that point, I will provide instructions for requesting edits and we will work back and forth until it’s perfect! Once you approve your final draft, printing and shipping takes about 6 to 8 business days.
What does the semi-custom option mean?
My semi-custom option means that we will start with a template you select. You also get to select the fonts, colors, and graphic elements you want to use.
I call it ‘semi-custom’ because once I have your unique photos and written content, I will make adjustments to the layout if needed.
Does it matter what agency we're using?
Nope! I have made profiles for families working with many different agencies, consultants, and lawyers. I am happy to follow their requirements and guidelines as needed.
Do I have to write the content myself?
Yes - but I will coach you!
The writing is usually the most difficult part for people - it’s hard to write about ourselves! The reason I do not offer to write your content for you is because I have found that the only way to capture your voice is to have you write it yourself. No one knows you better than you! And even though it may be hard to get through this step, you’ll have the peace of mind knowing that as expectant parents read your profile, they are seeing the real, authentic you. And they are hearing your ‘voice’ come out in your writing.
After we met our daughter’s birth mom for the first time she told us we were exactly what she expected after reading our profile. This was so affirming to use because it meant we had done a good and accurate job representing ourselves and it made all of us confident to move forward together in an adoption plan. This is my hope for you as well! And the best way to have that happen is to write it yourself. But don’t panic! I’m here to help and I provide a coaching call, editing and suggestions, and general support as needed.